the rudely simple wildly uninhibited emissary of your higher self here to take up space with self-trust knowing the unshakeable obviousness in her worthiness to vocalize what she needs and receive it


🌟 hello and welcome to the world of the SACRED BRAT 🌟

let your SACRED BRAT’s perspective burst the ‘sorry to bother you’ bubble, so you can stop being restrained by appropriateness & shoulds❤️

the more your inner SACRED BRAT feels heard, the less hesitation you’ll have standing by your Hell No’s and Hell Yess’s!

remember to ask your inner SACRED BRAT, your direct hotline to SOURCE what she thinks about your boss at work ;)

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the SACRED BRAT is:

* total entitlement to her needs being met

* will leave the party if she's not feelin it

* "thank you for serving my pleasure" is her mantra

* knows that her desire is meant to be had

you can feel the difference between having to and willing to vs truly wanting to. lean into your deservingness to choose the "wanting to" portal. You have permission to opt out of "having to" and "willing to" and you can get more and more of the truly "wanting to" stuff.

what does surrendering to your inner SACRED BRAT look like?

giving space to your inner wild truth feeler who is allowed to be rageful about being stifled 🌋🌋🌋

releases you from being stuck in the Gotta Be Nice Make Sure I’m Appropriate & Palatable For Everyone Else to the Detriment of My Own Self Syndrome

& gives you eye-opening awareness with what matters and what needs tending ❤️‍🩹❤️

so that you can be liberated from the core of your being, be empowered, be whole, and erotically satiated ❤️‍🔥

welcoming your INNER SACRED BRAT is the antidote to an unfulfilling life fulfilling other people’s expectations of you 👹

what do you call the potent feral force latent within you that absolutely will not let you be persuaded out of your squishing down your true needs and desires??

answer: SACRED BRAT

the Sacred Brat is part of our intrinsic true nature. we've all got one that thrived and flourished until they were shamed into hibernation. Sacred Brats have been muffled down with the people-pleasing-let-me-be-and-do-what-you-want i-dont-wanna-be-an-inconvenience persona. years of practicing being nice n getting along with things, not requesting exactly what you want creates a lot of buildup for volcanic eruption material. this is your erotic pleasure activation material

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when you’re scared of showing up imperfectly. so you think you shouldn’t show up at all.

honestly i've been feeling like a hot mess. the full moon is coming, and i was considering canceling CATHARSIS TEMPLE this coming sunday. the past days have been challenging. i fear being seen when i'm feeling low.

i wanna put the blanket over my head and say stop sending me more stuff to transmute Universe!!! my inbox is full already.
i wanna cry.
wail like a whale.
be held.
i wanna throw shit.
i wanna be motionless as stone.
i wanna complain like a bratty 5 yr old til i'm hoarse.

Inner Perfectionist Police: uh, you really shouldn’t be saying this. it’s not respectable.

here’s what my Inner Catharsis Queen says in response: thank you, Inner Perfectionist Police, for reminding me exactly why CATHARSIS TEMPLE is happening. for me to show up as i am, and give others the space to do the same. to let the healing alchemy happen when our whole self is surrendered.

cuz i’m so sick of feeling like there’s no place for me unless i'm in the right mood. unless i say things correctly and perfectly. i’m sick of suppressing my true feelings. i'm sick of feeling invisible and complying with the rules of a world that doesn't acknowledge my existence, and constantly seeks to erase me. i’m tired of squishing myself into a box to make sure everyone else is unoffended by me

who's gonna care about how i'm feeling unless i care about me? who can see me unless i learn to see me?

i'm creating a world where it’s ok to be a hot mess.
i'm creating a world where being a hot oozing lava mess is the new cool.
i’m allowed to express the truth of my constriction.
i’m willing to feel my strait jacket vividly and transform my submission to its constriction into subversion and liberation.
i deserve to experience the complete antidote bliss of release.

CATHARSIS for every time i was disrespected trespassed gaslit konichiwa’d, ching chongd bulldozed dehumanized and i was silent.

Permission to let your inner SACRED BRAT out💓Dedicate your tantrum for your inner child who always had to do as they were told, and just suck it up. Better this than being all constipated trying to be the bigger more mature person. Authenticity over Stuffing things down 🥳 👏🏼🥳👏🏼🥳🥳👏🏼🥳👏🏼�...

The Unsatiated Sacred Brat is probly one of the most suppressed silenced part of myself that got rejected and gaslit heavily in childhood in order to be the ‘good child’ who doesn’t complain, is supposed to feel ONLY grateful with what’s given to her, and most def not allowed to need or want more. Deshamifying needs and hunger feeling like it’s an ugly thing.

never ever dared to have a tantrum like this growing up

my tantrums were invisible and violently repressed internally

When you’re that disconnected and fearful of what you’re actually feeling, you don’t realize the pressure cooker of discontent and demons you’re creating internally 🌋👹🥁👹🌋👹

it’s so annoying, how hard it is, all the self-flagellation work and effort to mask and shove down into the dungeon all the shit that still manages to seep out somehow.

freal tho nothing feels more liberating more lipsmackingly gleeful than uncaging your demons from that dungeon of shame and self-flagellation.

My chosen name is Kwonyin after the goddess of compassion which is rlly about demon compassion ❤️👹❤️

your most demonized bratty parts are the parts you fear will guarantee your rejection. the ostracized parts that feel so unworthy of anything good.

you can turn all your scary, scared, repressed emotions into an abundant source of inspiration, epiphanies, peace, joy, JACKPOT HALLELUJAHS!

Emotional Alchemy is essentially about transforming negative emotion around a situation into something useful that benefits you.

This transformation happens as you’re supported to feel safe unrepressing something your subconscious and conscious self has deemed bad and wrong.

Many of us go through life holding these negative perceptions of ourselves and the way we feel, with the misunderstanding that feeling these things is what makes us bad and wrong.

I help you create a bridge from the things you reject into a space of unconditional self-love. 

Curious to know how this could work for you?!! if there’s something you need to get off your chest that you can’t talk to anyone else about...come see me!
and give yourself the gift of nurturing presence.

get naked emotionally

vulnerability is hot & make catharsis your new cool

i like what you’re wearing but i also like it

when you can take it off too

“Her warrior spirit is most vivid in her willingness to allow space for the darkness within us to be given all it has ever truly needed.”

The chance to be fully allowed, compassionately witnessed, deeply heard, closely held and slowly integrated with gratitude for the message it bears.” - Liberty

“I never had this kind of breakthrough in my 11 years of traditional talk therapy.”

In one session, Kwonyin was able to help me unlock a key part of my personal past that has been thwarting me at every turn. Yes—in just one session! I never had this kind of breakthrough in my 11 years of traditional talk therapy. - Freja Kah

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emotions had no place and no outlet growing up. it was normal to ignore how i feel and not really have a self. being so disconnected to my inner compass steered me into my Dark Night of the Soul, where I got to awaken to the damaging ignorance of my familial-cultural-societal conditioning.

i know now that dark times are a call from a deep essential part of ourselves that wants to be heard.

I help bridge a conscious connection to that call, so that you may be able to respond with care to the hidden spaces within your psyche where forgotten and unhealed emotional wounds live.

the catalyst for a deep awakening is right here, inside the clutter and stuckness

CATHARSIS 1-1 GUIDANCE

with kwonyin

cuz you’re tired of groundhog’s day - reliving the same triggers over and over again 🌋 👹 🌀

i know it’s been a treacherous trek getting here, and i’m so glad you made it 💚

CATHARSIS is the self-love you need to thrive

this ain’t no cope-out band-aid feel-better approach, but a deep tectonic shift that’ll shaken and awaken you to your core.

if you’re screaming into the void like WTF do i even do, why me, why this again (AGAIN?!)

while worried you’re being too much, and let down cuz nobody gets you, i got you!

“Her warrior spirit is most vivid in her willingness to allow space for the darkness within us to be given all it has ever truly needed.”

The chance to be fully allowed, compassionately witnessed, deeply heard, closely held and slowly integrated with gratitude for the message it bears.” - Liberty

“I never had this kind of breakthrough in my 11 years of traditional talk therapy.”

In one session, Kwonyin was able to help me unlock a key part of my personal past that has been thwarting me at every turn. Yes—in just one session! I never had this kind of breakthrough in my 11 years of traditional talk therapy. - Freja Kah

deep relief from a lifetime of trying to hold it all together alone is right. here.

i will hold compassionate space for you to be a hot mess express, let it rip with all the sh*t you’ve been trying so hard not to burden your friends with,

so that like a cosmic car wash, you emerge shiny and bright, with a whole new outlook and lots of new interior space to enjoy

i use my energetic intuitive gifts to provide emotional acupuncture to get to the precise source of things

so that you’re not stuck fussing on the merry-go-round of surface level reality, but getting to the molten core of underlying emotions where real change happens

guided emotional care is so powerful for breaking out of self-limiting patterns because we are social creatures by nature.

we’re not meant to heal alone.

the suffering soul in its life-long practiced patterns can’t always ‘see’ itself.

but a trusted and safe partnership to discover and fully see yourself where you are held will draw out stories you didn’t even know lived inside of you

so that a new vitality, and fresh flow of life force that comes with emotional presence can be immediately felt - that’ll inspire you to keep at it

and through our process, like the pearl that’s created from the irritant, you’ll see that your pain is here for you to forge greater grit and beauty from it

CATHARSIS IS THE NEW COOL

TOOLS FOR DEEP-DIVING

In our 1-1 sessions, I’ll move in and out of different ways of inquiry to unearth you layer by layer. The work we’ll do together will change the way you encounter your shadow forever.

✻ Parts Work

We see the different parts of you that are at work behind your major life themes. What part of you is overdominant, what part of you has been overlooked? Our aim is to bring transparency to the dynamics and agendas at play.

✻ Inner Child Work

The real gem is here. Your inner child is your most vulnerable essential self. All the places where your inner child felt silenced, not seen, injured - we will caretake their needs to create a safe haven.

✻ Integration

This is the sweet fruit of our work together. Your integration means that a part of you that’s been asking you for attention, gets the love and understanding it needed. We aim for integration and a sense of completion to your most perplexing issues in every session.

✻ Shadow Self

Your conscious mind wants something but you feel a resistance towards it. Self-sabotage. Everything you desire that’s not happening or you’re not having yet is due to unconscious resistance. Resolving your resistance is the most important thing to deal with in getting what you want.

✻ Completion Process

A powerful visualization process created by Teal Swan of creating resolution with core wounds from childhood by providing awareness with your adult perspective

✻ Un-shaming shame

Thankfully there’s a way through visibility shame that’ll feel infinitely better than being locked up by your self-flagellator with a gun to your head. We’ll infuse the golden elixir of compassion into stuck places to transmute shame. You’ll get better at getting more comfortable sharing your truthgifts, rather than not sharing it.

erupt n disrupt

no more holding it in

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Your 3-Month Journey

This is an intimate, 3-month container designed to support you. Here’s how we’ll work together:

  • What You Receive: Six (6) private, one-on-one sessions where we'll dive deep into your goals.

  • Where We'll Meet: All sessions are held on Zoom, so you can join from the comfort of your home, anywhere in the world.

  • Our Pace: Session lengths vary, minimum of 90 mins, to ensure we have all the time we need for breakthroughs.

  • Your Investment: $1500

  • Payment Plans Available

“CATHARSIS is radical therapy.”

It is an initiation into a type of femme-power-goddess-culture that you've always craved, always suspected was possible, but never had the words for. - Lauren

Kwonyin is engaging with powerful, deep, and ancient work; and this is palpable when you work with her. CATHARSIS helped me begin to witness and welcome the parts of me I'd long rejected and couldn't bear to look at. - Liberty

Kwonyin brought me face to face with my shame, which I'd been taught to hide and disown my entire life. Her sincere ever-evolving personal journey and research and excavation are all fodder for her expertise. Her bravery is infectious: she models how to be unafraid to look at every part of oneself, and she's similarly open-minded with how she crafts her offering. Her wisdom and practice is multi-informed - she synthesizes various schools of thought to create an all-encompassing experience. She combs diverse methods and ethoses for sacred truths and practical tools to offer her clients. - A.C.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Emotional alchemy is the process of transforming difficult undesirable emotions into a source of power and illumination. Understanding the value of emotions by taking time to honor, relate and respond to them in a safe, supportive space is the foundation for allowing the sacred work of inner alchemical transformation to occur.

    In daily life we experience the manifestation of unresolved trauma - via what we feel negatively triggered by. Triggers are an emotional flashback for unhealed wounds. these base emotions that we’ve been conditioned to repress, suppress - are valuable and highlighted. emotional alchemy is about allowing those emotions to emerge, be seen and heard so that that can be healed and integrated.

  • Shadow work helps you to expand your awareness and achieve your desires. at a fundamental level, you are here to experience your unique embodiment and the fulfillment of your desires. when you feel blockaded, this is an indication of a shadow part of you seeking to be resolved.

  • check out the testimonials page here!

  • Our weekly sessions are about 90 mins - 2 hrs. Based upon what arises in session, I may give intuitively guided homework to support your journey that’s meant to be awareness enhancing and nourishing. How much time you spend on this is up to you!

  • yes! we’ll find a time that works for both of us no matter where you are on the planet :)

  • It will work for you when you decide come heaven or come hell I’m ready for change. Your openness and willingness to grow through discomfort is the magic ingredient for massive transformation to happen.

    Are you willing to acknowledge that your suffering and well-being actually do matter, and are you willing to interrupt your old patterns with something entirely new? If yes, then yes absofuckinglutely it will work for you.